Simple Thoughts.....

Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.

Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart...
if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with eveything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us walled up because we are too afraid to care too much... for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.

What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say goodbye?

What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?

What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?

Hmmm.....

Take The Time To Heal Yourself As Only you Can Rely On Yourself

***** In our gay world, this translates to getting to know what type of gay man you're dealing with before asking him out. Does your prospect's personality match up with yours? What kind of gay man are you? Or better yet, what kind of a gay man do you want to be with?*****

***** If you're fallen head over heels for a guy you had a date with, met online or in any other situations, just be patient! take your time getting to know him. Be sure not to panic if he doesn't call you on a daily basis or if you two aren't picking out China pattens after spending a week of romance. If you guys hits it off, chances are he's into you as much as you are into him, but any potential relationship will be much better off if you take it slow and get to know one another. First impressions are great, but you can only get to know a person well after spending time with him. Who knows, he may turn out not to be the person you thought he was. On the other hand, he might just be the man of your dream. Only time will tell.*****

***** Patience is one of the hardest things to learn in life, especially while building relationships. It's known that gay relationships mature at an accelerated rate, often much faster than relationships between straight couples. Nonetheless, one thing heteros and homos have in common; the time it takes to find the right mate.*****

***** Healing your heart ... impossible is it may see, to mend a broken heart... so many pieces to recover... so many memories torn apart. I don't know where to begin... or even how to describe this feeling i have... that's ached deep inside. There are so many things i want to give you... so many things i want you to see... so many things i want you to feel, as i sit here patiently... patiently waiting, for the time to come... where you hearts beats for me, and two hearts beats as one... so , with every flower i give you, and every letter i write... a new piece of your heart unveiled. For me to hold tight.. with every tears you shed.. as i kiss them away. Another distant memory... just faded away... as we hold hands together... and have those late night talks... your heart will become one... and love's journey... again... you shall walk*****